When thinking about Raksha Bandhan, it’s no surprise that the image that comes to mind is of a brother and sister celebrating the strength of their relationship. However, in many families, an additional beautiful tradition is also followed, all to honour the women in the family who are just as special as the sister-in-law. Here, the lumba rakhi comes into the picture.
Originating in Rajasthan, the word ‘Lumba’ in Marwari refers to bangles. According to the Lumba rakhi tradition, it is tied around the bangle of the sister-in-law, where it dangles like a pendant. The purpose of a Lumba rakhi is to signify the importance and value of the sister-in-law in the family.
In this blog, we walk you through the steps on how to pick the perfect lumba rakhi for your bhabhi this Rakhi.
Choose Class, Not Excess
It’s not necessary to go over the top to give your rakhi a luxury touch. Just choose classy, designed pieces that look beautiful. For example:
- A lumba rakhi with pearl embellishments
- Kundan or Meenakari pieces
- Soft satin ties or tassels in pastel colours
- Minimalist gold-plated charm rakhi pieces
Choose something she would want to wear again after Raksha Bandhan is over.
Add a Personal Touch
Want to take rakhi from “sweet” to “WOW?” Add a personal touch to your rakhi or the wrapping. Here are some suggestions:
- Choose a customised rakhi to include her initials or a charm that symbolises her – a coffee mug for the coffee lover, a lotus charm for your yoga enthusiast, etc.
- Include a handwritten note or short letter, telling her how much you appreciate her.
- Include a framed picture of an exceptional experience you shared – wedding day, festival memory, or goofy photo.
Overall, just remember that it is the thought that makes the rakhi unforgettable.
Gift with Rakhi
A rakhi for bhabhi is even more thoughtful when it includes a small gift. You don’t need to spend a fortune to get a thoughtful gift. Here are some ideas:
- Scented candles or incense packets
- Cute mugs that matched the rakhi design
- Mini beauty packs, including lip chap and face mask.
- Rakhi + chocolate or mithai boxes
All of these little touches add “depth” to the rakhi occasion and help let her know she is not only her brother’s “attached” but that you love her too.
Far Away? Go Digital or Delivery.
Is your bhabhi living in another city or country? Don’t let distance keep the celebration dull and boring. There are even e-rakhi’s, with gifts of video messages, that can accompany the physical rakhi. You could even book a Zoom call and have a mini virtual Raksha Bandhan moment with her!
Make the Rakhi Match Her Vibe
Is your bhabhi soft and elegant, or a glam queen? Is she spiritual or all modern? Whatever she is, match a rakhi to her. Here are a few fun options for thought: Is she a boho bhabhi? A macrame option that includes earthy tones would be superb! Is she glam? A Lumba set complete with stones and sparkle would be fantastic! Is she traditional? Gota patti or meenakari styles in classic greens and golds would be a lovely gift! Is she minimalist? A delicate thread rakhi with a small charm could be a chic option!
Matching her style will show that you see and appreciate her individuality. That is the ultimate charm gift.
It’s the Emotions that Matter
It’s not about the price or the presentation, it’s about making your bhabhi feel included, appreciated and loved. The right rakhi captures all of that! It is your silent message of sisterhood, friendship and family.
So go ahead, order that beautiful Lumba rakhi, write that note, and send that love. Amounts don’t matter, designer or under 300; if it has heart, she will know.
